The Stillwater Letters · Letter 14

Who Jesus Says You Are

“But you are a chosen people, a royal priesthood, a holy nation, God’s special possession.”

1 Peter 2:9
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For the longest time, my identity was defined by my past relationships, my past mistakes, how others saw me and their opinions of me.

It was only when I stopped looking to the world for validation that I was able to receive the new Identity that God has given to me.

The world says your past defines you, but Jesus says you are a new creation and that your past no longer defines you. The world says that being in a relationship will determine your worth, but Jesus reminds you that your worth is established in him through what he did on the cross.

When you know this, it doesn’t matter who stays or who leaves, or what others may say or think of you. Your creator knows you. He has created you for a purpose. You are loved, chosen and forgiven.

Let the One who created you be the One who defines you—not the world.

Journaling for the week

In your journal this week I want you to draw a line down the middle of a page and give it the title — Who defines me.

On the left side of the page, write down all the labels, mistakes, opinions and experiences that have shaped how you see yourself. For example: Not good enough / Failure / Unlovable / Too much / Rejected

On the right, replace all of those things with the truth of God’s word. For example, Chosen / Loved / I am fearfully and wonderfully made / accepted.

End it with — This is who God says I am.

A guided prayer

Dear Heavenly father, help to stop measuring my worth by who stays or by who leaves. To know that I am not broken, I am not unloved. Instead, I am who you say I am, restored, loved and created intentionally with a purpose. Today I chose to believe you and embrace this new Identity I now have through you. In Jesus name, Amen.

Further Bible study

Ephesians 2:10 · Jeremiah 31:3

A faith action for the week

This week declare who God says you are, in the morning and in the evening. Declare that you are loved, chosen, forgiven, a new creation, and created with a purpose.

Worship song of the week

“You Say” — Lauren Daigle ↗

— Alice

After the letter

Don’t rush off — sit with it a moment.

A letter read together is different from a letter read alone. This is the quiet table where the letter keeps going.

Where did this find you?

If a line of this letter met you somewhere real, tell Alice. A single sentence is enough — she reads every reply herself.

Tell Alice where it found you

From the circle

When women share what this letter met in them, their words will appear here — always with their blessing, never without it.

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